Before there was television, radio, print advertising, bumper stickers, electronic billboards or the Internet, advertising was more organic: face-to-face networking.
Just as everything else that is “green,” Organic Networking is making a comeback (although successful professionals know that it never really went anywhere).
Unlike more modern advertising methods, Organic Networking cannot be done by a paid professional, glossed over by a flashy logo or slick text. No, the success of Organic Networking lies within following the rules and applying good, old-fashioned honesty and finesse.
Whether your Organic Networking arises from organized meetings, referrals and introductions from friends (or fans), or the sheer luck of bumping into someone who asks what you do, follow these basic rules, and you’ll see your success rate at Organic Networking soar:
- Be On Time – better yet, be early. Most of the true people-meeting comes before the actual meeting starts, which means that’s when impressions are being made and relationships are being built.
- Be Consistent – know what product or service you’re representing and stick with it. Don’t be a DJ one week and an SEO specialist the next – it confuses people, and they’ll be less likely to want to refer you.
- Be Sincere – I’m a copywriter, not a resume writer. People ask me all the time if I’ll write their resume, and I tell them that’s not my strong suit. But if they want me to write their bio, press release or website copy, I’m their girl.
- Ask, Don’t Tell – it’s not about how many business cards you can hand out or collect; it’s about the quality of the relationships you’re building. People will refer you more often if you ask about their business than if you continually dominate the conversation, talking about your own. True communication is give-and-take.
- Be Prepared – have business cards, your name tag, any coupons or flyers, and your elevator speech ready to go before you arrive. Scrawling your name and email address on a torn-off piece of notebook paper is not the impression you want to leave with people.
- Follow Up – carry a calendar (or an electronic calendar device) and make an appointment. Send an email when you return to your office, telling the other person how much you enjoyed learning about what they do, and that you look forward to hearing more at your meeting on Thursday at the coffee shop. Then actually show up – on-time and prepared.
- Repeat – Organic Networking is about quality, not quantity. You can attend 50 networking events in a single month, but if you don’t go back, you’ll be forgotten. Choose the ones that best suit your business potential and make a commitment to go for at least several months consistently.
There’s no magic rule to Organic Networking, although “being sincere” is magical, since business people often feel the need to perform when they network. Look back at some of your more successful business relationships and note the patterns. You’re likely to find that the traits shared among your best clients is how you met, or the honest, comfortable, give-and-take relationship that has developed through face-to-face Organic Networking.

